The Emotional Effects of Covid-19

Woman Looking Out Of The Window — Park Ridge, IL — Athans and Associates

The Covid-19 virus is dated 2019 but came to us in a big way by February,2020 and continues to have a major impact in our lives. We have learned some things about the virus since then, but more so about how it has impacted us.


The required social isolation/distancing has affected our lives to a great extent, changing our work, 
school, and social time a great deal. Adults have been required to work from home in order to avoid physical contact with others. This means eight to ten hours per day on the computer using videoconferencing software to be in contact with staff, clients, etc. Students, too, struggle with no contact outside the home, video conferencing all day long, sometimes with structure and direction, sometimes wondering about somewhat aimlessly on the computer if there is less guidance. Parents often complain that they don’t have the time to supervise their kids on the computer, as they are concerned about doing their job. This is especially true at a time when some jobs are expendable due to a change in the economy created by…Covid -19.


Socialization is important to all us: adults, adolescents, children, toddlers, even animals! Have you noticed how your cat or dog shows you how they missed you when you were at work and returned home? Science tells us that socialization was even evident with the caveman. 


Research shows that being social is an important part of our mental health. This is because talking, sharing thoughts and feelings allows us to “vent,” but also reminds us that we are not alone in solving those problems. Additionally, empathy given, and empathy received goes a long way. “I know how you feel” can be uplifting. Participating, observing one’s smile, laughing together reminds us that we are not alone. Socialization adds to our happiness and well-being.


Developmentally, children learn to trust at a young age. Sharing thoughts, feelings, toys, etc. means reaching out to others. They may get hurt emotionally, but then they learn more about relationships and eventually take more risks. Children learn and experience their family first-hand. Getting close, trusting, taking care of, etc. is all part of the process. So, the family is important socially, but our current-day society goes way beyond that. In recent times we spend more time out of the home than in the home (short of sleep time).


Social distancing and social isolation have immense personal consequences leading to symptoms of anxiety, stress, fear, sadness, depression and even helplessness and possible suicide. 


When experiencing these symptoms, we often eat too much and irresponsibly, become lax in physical activity, at times, over-indulge in alcohol, drugs, etc., resulting in even more pronounced symptoms over time. The damage to our bodies and minds is incalculable. While you may have heard of some of these recommendations, do not overlook them. It is not so much all or nothing, rather work toward healthy lifestyles. The support of your partner and family working together will make it much more effective and pleasing to all. 

Diet:

 

  1. Eat three plus meals per day, graze as you need to, focus on protein and vegetables, etc.
  2. Drink lots of water
  3. Avoid alcohol/non-prescribed drugs 

Physical Activity:

 

  1. Exercise, Exercise, Exercise! Exercise can help with weight and many medical conditions such as high blood pressure, Type 2 diabetes, arthritis, muscle tone, mood, etc.

 Coping strategies:

 

  1. Focus on your strengths
  2. Be thankful for what you have
  3. Give yourself breaks
  4. Keep your expectations in check
  5. Plan social times; enjoy time with family, friends, others
  6. Use humor
  7. Maintain a regular schedule
  8. Focus on what you have control over, and what you want to do about it, not what you don’t have control over
  9. Maintain good sleep habits (no stimulation, regular sleep times)
  10. Avoid too much media information, as it can consume your day and your thoughts and feelings, and you still don’t have control of what’s presented
  11. Be good to yourself!


Michael Athans

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